A woman who loves you is crazy about you. Just as she does all the nice crazy things to please you or make you happy, so will she make life a hell for you when the relationship goes bad.
When a woman loves you, she can deny the mother for you, she could abandon the family for you, she could give you her only food and go hungry. She does all the crazy things for you she can't explain.
I have seen posts with pictures of ladies who embezzled money from the work place and have gone into hiding. The truth of the matter is, most of these ladies were taking those deadly risks for the man she claims to have fallen for. Imagine what will happen to her if the same man leaves her?
When she feels you have taken her for a fool, leaving her for someone better after all the nice crazy things she did for you, then she turns into the devil for you.
We recently witnessed one in Accra, when a female actress chased her ex-lover, gospel musician around with canes. If she didn't love the man that much, she wouldn't have behaved in such a manner; it also implies, she wouldn't have sacrificed or given so much in the relationship if she wasn’t in love with him.
It is rather unfortunate that some bad men take advantage of kind-hearted women, and at the end of the day, turn the beautiful angel into an ugly devil in the name of disappointment.
This is a loving advice to all the young men out there, be honest and sincere with yourself before you enter into any sort of relationship. Know what you want from the start. You don't need to lie to make a woman happy or stay with you. Women are not kids to be lied to in order to make them happy.
Even kids hold you to your lies sometimes. Women are adults, mature and responsible, tell them what the truth is, what you are looking for, how the future is going to be. Don't lead them on because of your selfish needs.
Stop labelling poison as love for people to drink. When you do that, you don't only kill the human in them, you also turn them into an animal. You force them to treat you like animal.
It is my prayer that the beloved daughters of men fond of this behaviour, don't fall in love with breeds of men like them. If that happens, they will understand better.
Ladies out there, take your time to know men before you fall for their words. You should give your all to God rather than to man. Make sure he is really real before you get real with him. And when you realize he is not, don't run after him.
A bus, train and man have something in common, you don't run after them when they leave, for surely another one arrives, and many at times, it turns out to be the one you dreamt of. If you think I am lying ask Meghan, Duchess of Sussex.
In conclusion "Don’t be misled; remember that you can’t ignore God and get away with it: a man will always reap just the kind of crop he sows!" - Galatians 6:7 (TLB).
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Thank you for reading. This has been your Counselor and Motivator.
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