When will I get married? I am not growing any younger, the clock is ticking, all my friends are tying the knot? Where is the right person for me? I am probably sure he or she is stuck somewhere. When at all will my prayer be answered?
My dear friends relax, for time and date is not your business, someone controls that, Acts 1:7 (GNT) "Jesus said to them, “The times and occasions are set by my Father's own authority, and it is not for you to know when they will be".
Instead of waiting and getting anxious for no reason which will rather lead you to distraction, prepare yourself for the task ahead. It is better to prepare for opportunity than to have opportunity and not be prepared.
Each time you bring someone into your life, they occupy a fraction of your life, they take part of your time, either a spouse or child. So for the meantime that no one is there, take your time to establish yourself.
Put first your independence, goals and dreams. Focus on developing yourself. Set yourself up for greatness, get an education, career, skill, etc. Become a force to be reckoned with.
Do not let your world revolve around someone else, people can be temporary and love isn't always on time.
Set standards for yourself, know what you want. Have your own likes and don't bend always to meet people at their level.
The one who deserves will come. Be patient. Do not give up for I guarantee you, seasons change and those who are not meant to be will leave.
Take care of home before impressing the streets. Stop having sex in private with someone you can't end up with in public.
Lastly, take good care of your health, maintain your body, exercise regularly, lose excess weight and eat healthy. That makes you more handsome, beautiful, younger than your age, feel good and confident and more attractive to your future spouse.
Please share with your friends, someone out there needs this.
Thank you for reading. This has been your Counselor and Motivator.
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