How she was chased by every man, how he was every woman's dream; the goal was to let you know they were once beautiful and handsome but beauty fades as you grow, handsome features die off out as you age.
But one thing they failed to tell you, was that what kept their marriage all these years had nothing to do with their appearance. Looks are not as important as young people think these days. Some young ladies respect their skins and make it a priority, take good care of it than the people in their lives, including their partner.
Your soul defines your character, commitment, passion and is more important than how you look. Marriage is not about how cute the husband and wife look but how beautiful they live together. Couples are divorcing today because they can't live together, it wasn't because they didn't look cute.
Just a guy’s appearance is giving some ladies orgasm, and it is sad to know that some of these ladies, in their minds, are in relationship with guys who have not even proposed to them.
Ladies are turning down good guys because of their appearance and not because of their soul. So she is in a relationship with someone who has a bad character, not committed to her, and treats her as an option.
Guys are proposing love to ladies today not because of their souls but their appearance. Because of that, they can't date you without sex. To them, they are in love with your body and not your soul.
These guys throw away a good woman with good character reason that she refused to have sex with him because they were not married. This is something every guy should applaud a lady in this modern world for.
No matter how beautiful you are, your beauty will soon fade, if you are going to get married to someone because of their beauty, you begin to lose them right after the wedding. When all the make-up is gone, when the body enhancements are taken off.
By the time you start giving birth, your spouse might have found another new love. To him you have lost what he fell for or its value has depreciated. I strongly believe men who are quick to profess love to ladies they just met are not in love with them, don't even love them and don't understand that word LOVE.
Most of the “I love you” only means "I love your body and can't wait to explore it". You are more than your body, your soul defines you not your body. Before you accept that love, make sure they are in love with your soul.
In conclusion "That is why we never give up. Though our bodies are dying, our spirits are[a] being renewed every day" - 2 Corinthians 4:16 (NLT).
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Thank you for reading. This has been your Counselor and Motivator.
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