Women are not attention seekers, if they were, you won't have to propose to her to be with you. Proposing to her means you are requesting for her company. You are also telling her you want to love and care for her. Love to her is when you give her your attention.
She is not looking for anyone's attention but the man who claim he wants to give her his attention. Don't let her feel like she has committed the worst crime because she is asking for your attention. It is just a reminder of what you promised her and nothing more.
If you don't know what it means to give a woman attention or make time for her, don't propose to any woman. Before you came, she wasn't lacking that, she gives herself all the attention she needs. She doesn't mind spending an hour on her hair. She doesn't mind spending days thinking of the dress to wear to an upcoming event. She doesn't mind spending half an hour in front of her mirror admiring herself.
She was giving herself all the attention she needed. Once you worried yourself by telling her you want to make her your priority, to put her first, you are telling her, you want to do the very things that make her happy.
Have you asked yourself why women have mirror in their bag, etc? She wants to make sure she is looking good at all times. When you are with her and can't keep your eyes on her, but on other women, she feels she is not looking good or not enough for you. Your attention should be on your woman. That is how she sees your love for her through your eyes.
As much as she makes time for herself, she wants her man to make time for her. Even if you are not around, let your presence be felt. Call her, send her text message. Just let her know you miss her or thinking of her.
In conclusion "Charm can be deceiving, and beauty fades away, but a woman who honors the Lord deserves to be praised" - Proverbs 31:30 (CEV).
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Thank you for reading. This has been your Counselor and Motivator.
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