DON'T BE REDUCE TO A CIGARETTE IN THE NAME OF LOVE

One of the painful truth is, some people who claim they are so much in love and find it hard to let go are just dreaming. To the one they are dying for, they are just like a cigarette that they come to when bored, stressed up, cold or want to get high. Once they are done with them, they are squashed by stepping on them.

It is ironic and cruel to claim to be in love when your supposed lover sees you as a piece of tobacco for stress relief. They only look for you when they are stressed up and want someone to calm them down. No matter where you are or what you are doing, they want you to stop and attend to their call. But once they are done with you, it's like you never existed, until they are stressed up again.

Some of the people who are in relationships now are only important when their partner feels cold, and want them around to warm them up. They don't mind coming to you at the remotest place and once they are warmed up, they suddenly forget they had something doing with you.

If you find yourself in such a situation, you are not in a relationship. You are just a five-minute cigarette break. You are lighted whenever they are in the mood for you and put out when they are tired of you.

My question to you is, how long can you keep up with such a relationship? Yes I understand that it is not easy to leave such a person because you love them so much, but is it cute for you to look like a fool all the time?

Are you not tired of being lit up for a five minutes break and put out when they are tired of you? It is time you realize that many people will want you, like you and want to have you but not want to love you or like to love you. There is always a difference between wanting you, liking you and loving you. If you have to choose, please choose to be loved else you risk being used.

You have good reasons not to rush any relationship; get to know people, understand them before you trust them with your heart. You never trust in a hurry, you should always verify and confirm.

We live in a world which is so artificial; people are making their own rules and choices, a world where wrong is right, abnormal is normal, a world where real is rare. A world where Lemon flavour is used for a "Welcome Drink" whilst the real Lemon is used in a "Finger Washing Bowl".

You can be real and good yet used by people. So make sure you are with the right kind of person. Don't remain in any bad relationship because you think leaving will be a waste of time. One thing you might not understand is that, yes the relationship didn't bring you what you wanted but at least, it taught you what you do not want. You are worthy; don't let anyone reduce your worth to a piece of cigarette in the name of love.

In conclusion "So be careful how you live. Live as men who are wise and not foolish. 16 Make the best use of your time. These are sinful days" - Ephesians 5:15-16 (NLV).

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Thank you for reading. This has been your Counselor and Motivator.

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