DON'T RUSH INTO RELATIONSHIP by Counselor Adofoli

Bend down boutique, is a popular term in Ghana, where used and slightly used clothes, shoes, etc. are displayed on the ground in market places. One has to bend to make their selection or purchase.

This boutique has lots of patronage due to the low price, yet people spend lots of time to examine their selections very well before they settle on one.

Its amazing how people spend time to examine low-priced, used up clothes and items, but they don't do due diligence when it comes to a life time partner; One of the most expensive decision in life that can change your destiny.

We allow desperation, loneliness, family, friends, money, laziness, etc. to rush us into the arms of the wrong one. No wonder some people are duped, lied too, cheated on, hurt, even killed and many more.

This mad rush into relationships often leads to infatuation; an intense but short-lived passion or admiration for someone.

This where you hear words like "I can’t wait to have you”, Which is different from Love. When someone is led by love, you will hear words like "I know you are there, we don’t have to rush things.”

The seasons do not push one another; neither do clouds race the wind across the sky. All things happen in their own good time. So why rush through life?

I have watched artists paint, they take time to create beautiful images using their smallest brushes, some take even years but they never give up, knowing how exquisitely beautiful the look will be at the end.

Same goes with God, He takes time to put together all the small bits and pieces of our lives, to create something special. Have faith knowing the longer it takes, the more beautiful it is. So don't rush into falling in love, for love never runs out.

If you want a good spouse, make it your goal to be a good man or woman but don't force anyone to realize it. If he/she doesn’t recognize that on their own, it's their loss! If you have to convince someone to love you, you will have to convince them to stay.

Don't miss out on your blessings by entertaining the wrong distractions. Distractions are sent by the devil to steer you away from what God truly has for you.

If you are thinking of changing the wrong person, remember Snakes don't change, They only shed their skin.

In conclusion keep this bible verse with you Proverbs 19:2 (CEV) "Willingness and stupidity don’t go well together. If you are too eager, you will miss the road."

Please share with your friends, someone out there needs this.

Thank you for reading. This has been your Counselor and Motivator.

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