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Lady, Says: “After Being Side Hoe For 6 Years, 33 Abortions, He Finally Proposed”
She wrote;
“after being the side hoe for 6 years, 33 abortions, and putting his mama in the hospital after running her over in a jeep Cherokee after she called me by his actual girlfriends name, he proposed and i said YES!!!”
DON’T DATE IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY by Counselor Adofoli
What this simply means is that you should be responsible for your happiness, be happy before you go into a relationship. Don't go into relationships sad or unhappy waiting for your partner to make you happy. Your partner is not an entertainer. You who know yourself better than your partner yet you can't make yourself happy, how sure are you your partner can?
The beautiful part of being happy before entering into a relationship is that, if you are happy before you meet someone, you can still be happy after they are gone. They can't take your happiness away because they were not responsible for it.
Treat yourself like a king or a queen; be independent, hardworking, honest and trustworthy. Give to yourself all that you want for you don't need someone to tell you "had it not been me, you wouldn't have had that".
The truth is, you can't always count on people, even your own shadow leaves when you get into the dark, how much more others? This is why you have to give yourself self-care, it doesn't mean you are selfish. There are things people can't do for you no matter how they feel about you. No one can drink medicine for you when you are sick.
Let no mistake steal your joy. In fact, mistakes are part of life, we are born to make mistakes and we will one day die with all the lessons learnt but no regrets.
So respect your feelings even if you respect others. Pleasing people and leaving yourself behind just to look good is not right. Being a good person doesn't guarantee others will be good to you. Have control over yourself and choose to be who you want to be, people are free to accept you or free to walk away.
You are too old to worry about who likes you and who dislikes you. You have responsibilities to take care of, that is what matters. Love those who love you, support those who support you but never hate anyone even if they do, just leave them to God.
When you learn to do this before getting into relationships, you don't just become an inspiration to your partner; you also act as their support, their safest place to be. You become a formidable team member; whatever your partner lacks, you’ve got it, you balance each other. With a minor setback, you will have a major comeback, when you have a bad day you can always be assured of a better night.
Your partner will look into your eyes and love you more because all they see is themselves; they will love their heart because you have touched it and they will love their life because you are in it. Loving you becomes their daily hobby because they are not doing that for you or to impress you, they are doing so because that is what makes them happy.
In conclusion "I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live" - Ecclesiastes 3:12 (NIV).
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NAIJA IN D PLANE by Ukpono Etuk
# Balogun : Yes o
# Etebo : Chai my first world cup
# Ighalo : Referee do ojoro for us
# Musa : shut up joo, see free post way you no fit score, no be like my ball way I score... walahi lemme catch you...
They started fighting (Musa & Ighalo)...
#Mikel : it's enough
# Ndidi : see as Messi dey dribble Idowu
# Idowu : Lemme hear word joo, you think say e dey easy for one person to mark Messi
# Iheanacho : Omerou no fit pursue Messi
# Omerou : When nobody to support me, Ekong dey do like ode for back
#Balogun : Sey Messi na god, way you and Idowu no fit stop ham
# Nwankwo : Moses, why you con dey fall like wall of Jericho na
#Ighalo : I wonder o
#Musa : Ighalo i said you should shut up, even remain silent till we land Abuja
# Rohr : will you all shut up, you played stupidly
# Iwobi : when you no start me nko, mtcheew
# BUHARI : (calling Mikel) wia is the cup you promise to bring back home, U guys should beta not come back home
# Moses : TELL AM SAY SNAKE DON SWALLOW AM jare
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MARRIAGE IS NOT BASED ON EXPERIENCE by Counselor Adofoli
These days singles are jumping into relationships when they know clearly, they are not ready for marriage now. When you enquire why they are doing so the answer you get is "I know I will get married one day so I need to have experience before I go into it".
What they don't know is that, what they experience when they are not married with an unready partner is different from that of a partner they settle down with when they are ready for marriage.
Others think the kind of experience they have with people at school, group, church, work place, vicinity equals a good relationship and when they get into the relationship and they don't get the same kind of experience, they are quick to conclude they made the wrong choice.
Relationship goes beyond contact, observation or events. Relationship goes beyond the nice things you hear about people. It is about how they behave towards you in good and bad times. It is about their willingness to work with you, grow with you as a partner. It is about walking the long distance of life together and not meeting a place, event or junction.
If you are going into a relationship based on experience, then you will fire your partner anytime your expectations or experience are not met. Anytime they hurt you, any time they disappoint you, anytime they make mistakes it means it is the end of such relationship.
Instead of working together with them in the process of becoming a better person in the future. Instead of helping them to overcome their weaknesses, instead of helping them to bring the best out of them.
When you build a relationship with your partner and not just get involved with them on bases of experience, you will appreciate their journey of becoming a better partner. They become more beautiful to you. You become very proud of them. They become your best friend.
Relationship has betrayal, denial, hurt and it does not end when these events occur. It is work to build the good out of the bad, whilst people who come into the relationship on experience end the partnership when these events occurred because they are not in to build with you, they are in to enjoy; they are not in to work, they are in to reap; they are not in to invest, they are in to cash out.
Relationship has forgiveness; it has many chances and not second chances because it seeks to bring the best out of us, it seeks our growth, because it is based on the basic of love and not merit. "For love makes up for many of your faults" - 1 Peter 4:8b (TLB).
Whilst experience seeks perfection and easily gives up when it comes across faults, to such people, you are a problem. They are in for solution. Relationship based on love sees it as a challenge to improve. Experience will give an excuse to back out, Relationship sees it as inspiration to move forward.
In conclusion "If you work hard, you will have plenty. If you do nothing but talk, you will not have enough" - Proverbs 14:23 (ERV).
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Mum Draws Up Binding Document To Prevent Her Son From Getting Addicted To Games & Tablet by Ukpono Etuk
A lot of parents found the rules to be quite brilliant and say they plan to try it with their kids.
PS: Before I’m bombarded with ideas for summer holiday activities, we have those sorted thank you very much. ?”
Rapper Proposes To His Longtime Girlfriend Hours Before Heading To Prison For The Next 20 Years by Ukpono Etuk
Greedo gave his final performance before heading out for jail at a packed house at Belasco Theater in Los Angeles. While performing his hit, “If I”, the rapper got down on bended knee and popped the question to the amazement of those in the crowd. And when Kei Bradley said “yes”, the crowd had a pretty epic reaction.
Greedo proposed to his girlfriend less than 48 hours before his prison bid was to begin and she was well aware of the number of years he’ll be doing in jail before she accepted the proposal.
FALLING IN LOVE IS LIKE MADNESS by Counselor Adofoli
Falling in love is like getting drunk; yes, you are drunk with feelings. Emotions move you, you act without thinking twice, you accept lies without doubting, you kiss a frog and call it a Prince.
This is what falling in love looks like, it’s a nice, sweet and beautiful experience yet crazy. It’s God’s design, it’s normal, it’s just like the appetizer before a main meal.
I know of old men and women who recollect how they fell in love with their youthful spouse and now ask why all those feelings disappeared.
I am taking time to educate people in love and those who are about to fall in love, what this experience is about and how this happiness will not turn into a nightmare, or bitterness in their hearts.
It's God design for us to be in love; the first stage of love is driven by feelings but it’s temporary. It has an average span of 2-3years. Falling in love is similar to being “high” like people who indulge in drugs, and at that height, lots of things don't make sense to you, but once you come down, they surely do.
No wonder Songs of Solomon 8:4 (NLT) says "Promise me, O women of Jerusalem, not to awaken love until the time is right". You need to fall in love with the right person and at the right time, or else it creates a hell afterwards-effect for you.
Because of this experience, it’s very important that you get to know people very well, people you can trust and are safe with before you fall in love with them. The knowing comes in the dating process.
Falling in love can be described as falling from the top of a building; you need to be sure you have the right cushion, which refers to the right person, waiting below to catch you just like in the GLICO TV advert.
The danger here is, a lot of us barely know people before we fall in love with them, so we end up coming out of the experience with hurt.
The next time you are thinking of falling in love, please pause, ask yourself, do I know him or her? Can I trust them with my life?, before you proceed.
For when you are drunk you have no idea what happens to you, so imagine being drunk and left vulnerable.
In conclusion "It is dangerous and sinful to rush into the unknown" - Proverbs 19:2 (TLB)
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Child separations 'should have never happened,' says emergency manager at Tornillo tent facility by Respect Blues
The schedule for the day was labeled “battle rhythm.”
Stop blaming DBanj’s wife”- Toyin Lawani tells Nigerians as she recounts how her son, Tenor, almost drowned in her presence by Ukpono Etuk
Since the news broke online last night, some Nigerians heaped the blame on her for being careless. They attributed the death of the one year old to negligence on the part of Lineo, his mother.
Easy Ways Of Linking YouTube channel and Google Adsense To Make Money by Ukpono Etuk
Go to the Monetization page. Get there by clicking your icon in the top right > Creator Studio. Then, in the left menu, click Channel > Monetization.
- Go to the "How will I be paid?" section.
- From the AdSense Association page, follow the "next" step to be directed to AdSense.
- Select the option at the bottom of the page to choose the Google Account you want to use.
- Enter the password for your Google Account.
- Accept the Adsense association.
- Provide your contact information and submit your AdSense application.
- You'll be redirected back to YouTube and will see a message saying that your AdSense application has been received.
- Adsense will update you by mailonce your AdSense account is approved. Your AdSense ID will be updated on the AdSense Association page. Note that it may take up to 48 hours for the association to be fully active.
Dbanj loses son by Ukpono Etuk
Submit Yourself to EFCC, PDP Tells Oshiomhole by Ukpono Etuk
The party said Oshiomhole lacks the rectitude to speak in public as a leader at any level, whatsoever, until he clears the allegations that he diverted billions of naira meant for the people of Edo state while he was governor.
PDP noted that since the petition against him at the EFCC is in the public domain, the newly coronated national chairman would do the APC, Buhari Presidency, the EFCC as well as himself a lot of good by quietly submitting himself for investigation and possibly, prosecution.
According to the party, since one of the campaign footstool upon which APC was elected into office is fighting corruption, it will be incongruous for Oshiomhole to go about his new assignment with allegation of corruption, even as tiny as a strand of hair.
It is also instructive for the new chairman to understand that Nigerians are no longer inclined to sophistry, illogical arguments, deceits, contrivance and recourse to abuse as a method of campaign.
As such, the PDP would be prepared for engagements that have the potency of rescuing our people from the hunger and starvation which the APC has sunk them.
However, the essence of Oshiomhole's emergence as President Muhammadu Buhari's sole candidate was not lost on Nigerians as the Presidency imposed him as a pliable instrument to frustrate other would-be presidential aspirants of APC extraction and hand the ticket to President Buhari, who, obviously is afraid to stand a presidential primary due to his failures in office.
With Saturday’s charade, APC and its Federal Government, which claims to have zero tolerance for corruption, have eaten their vomits, confirming that they have been hypocritical and trending on lies, deception and propaganda.
With the outcome of the Saturday's convention, the APC has kissed internal democracy goodbye in the selection of its candidates at all levels as the national leadership, led by people burdened with corruption allegations, cannot but submit to the whim and caprices of those who granted them official protection from prosecution.
President Buhari and his handlers should however note that manipulating the APC convention and seizing the party’s Presidential ticket cannot help them as Nigerians, are now fully rallying on the platform of the repositioned PDP in their quest for a new President, who truly has the competence to effectively run a united, secure and prosperous nation, come 2019.
Signed:
Kola Ologbondiyan
National Publicity Secretary
TAKING YOUTHS TO GOD by Ukpono Etuk
An indigene of the area and State Chairman of PDP, Obong Paul Ekpo used the venue to thank God for protecting his life and that of his wife.
In the entourage were Deputy Governor, Mr. Moses Ekpo, Speaker AKHA, Rt. Hon Onofiok Luke, members of the National and State Assembly, Commissioners, Special Assistants among others.
#SundayService
#Youth4Christ
#AkwaIbom
#UdomEmmanuel
DON'T BE PUSHED! By Counselor Adofoli
Are they putting pressure on you to date someone now?
Do you feel you are doing something against your will?
Do you feel you are doing something wrong?
I am here to tell you, you are different from others and your story is different from theirs.
The size of your blessing is different from others. The favour upon you is bigger than others. You might be class mates but not Grace mates. It might delay due to how special it is, but that's not a denial. Quality things take time. The extraordinary doesn't just happen, it is intentional.
They might be ahead of you today but it doesn't matter; how you finish is what matters.
Stay in tune with God your Maker and only listen to Him. It's better to walk alone in the right direction than with a crowd going in the wrong direction.
You may not like being single, but allow God to work on you, God needs your attention this season. Let God mould, prepare and develop you before He gives you to someone.
Someone just for you, someone special for you, someone who has the manual to your heart and won't play with it. It's a beautiful day and I ask God to bless you abundantly.
In conclusion "And with all his abundant wealth through Christ Jesus, my God will supply all your needs" - Philippians 4:19 (GNT).
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Top 10 strongest currencies in Africa 2018 by Ukpono Etuk
The dinar (Arabic: دينار ) is the currency of Libya. Perhaps it’s oil which is keeping things afloat but one Libyan Dinar will set you back around R8.53 currently, making it the strongest currency in Africa.
2. Ghanaian Cedi – R3.79
Lady flees with lover’s ATM card, withdraws N1m
According to reports, Olugbenga who is a business man was visited by Thelma Kimberly, who is based in Port Harcourt, Rivers state, at his residence on Victoria Island, Lagos State, on May 17, 2018.
Punch City Round learnt that the lovers had a beautiful day touring the environment before they returned home to cap it all. The 45-year-old man reportedly slept off after which Kimberly who is 22 fled with his ATM card and a mobile phone.
She was said to have made withdrawals, transfers and purchases at a supermarket in Lekki using PoS. Olugbenga reported the case at the Ikoyi Police Division and Kimberly was eventually tracked down this month. A police source said that while the suspect was on the run, an order was sent to a bank she used to place a restriction on her account. “The man then sent N100,000 to her bank account as bait with a belief that the bank would alert the police as soon as she made attempts to withdraw the money.
“However, she succeeded in withdrawing the N100,000. She even snapped the police order sent to the bank and sent it to the lover on WhatsApp. “The police had written to the bank querying why the money was paid to her despite the order.
Altogether, she made away with N1m,” the source said. The suspect, in her statement to the police, confessed to the crime but said she returned the phone to the complainant through the manager of a restaurant on Victoria Island. She said, “I met Olugbenga in 2016 in Port Harcourt when he visited my foster father, who is his friend. On May 17, around 8:00pm, I visited him in his residence on Victoria Island. He took me out and we bought some things. We had fun several times when we came back. He was tired and slept off.
I Stopped Being Toyin Abraham’s Friend After She Slapped Me –Wumi Toriola Reveals Why Relationship Went South by Ukpono Etuk
Nigerian singer Sky B involved in a ghastly car accident by Ukpono Etuk
Super Eagles goalkeeper, Carl Ikeme shares update on his battle with Leukemia by Ukpono Etuk
Carl Ikeme whose hospitalization has seen him miss the FIFA 2018 world cup in Russia spoke of how he can now go about normal activities pending when he will finally be cured.
Singer Iyanya mocked by fans for dropping just N3k after much hailing in Delta State by Ukpono Etuk
Why Trump doesn't want an immigration bill: The Art of No Deal
“Dis dude is cute…”- Bobrisky gushes over Tobi by Ukpono Etuk
Bobrisky who has previously made public his love for Wizkid, Davido and Kcee seems to be considering Tobi as a prospective recipient of his affection.
The male cross dresser shared a picture of Tobi Bakre and declared that he is really cute.
LIFE IS NOT A WORLDCUP by Counselor Adofoli
You need to know that life is a mixture of good and bad; it takes a little pain and hurt to appreciate smiles.
Failing an exams, losing elections, getting disappointed or fired, being rejected or ignored are all part of life’s journey. These events don't happen to break you, its just like a car changing gears, the car might move a bit backward before going forward.
The end of love is not the end of life; it should be the beginning of understanding, that love leaves for a reason, but also leaves you a lesson.
It all depends on how you take it. There will always be hell in the word hello, good in goodbye, over in a lover, end in friend, ex in next and if in life. You are not ugly as you think or as people say; you are neither horrible nor a leftover; you are not without talent.
Just close your eyes and imagine the best version of you possible. Now open your eyes; that's who you are. Let go of any part of you that doesn't believe it.
Your happiness will always depend upon the quality of your thoughts. What you input gives you the result you get. Your self-worth is based on your opinion of yourself, how you validate yourself; how you accept yourself.
You might not be someone's first choice today, but you are certainly a great choice, someone's only choice. You might not be rich today, but you are valuable, priceless. Never pretend to be who you are not. You are best being you. No matter how bad an original is, it’s always better than a counterfeit.
You might not be so proud of something you did in the past, but you should be proud of who you are today, because you live in the present not the past. You may not be prefect but the truth is, you don't need to be.
Even if your own parents reject you, God will not. God still loves you and that is amazing. The Bible says, “My father and mother may abandon me, but the Lord will take care of me” - Psalm 27:10 (TEV).
Remember its not God's purpose to see you sad, depressed or defeated; that is Satan’s desire and what makes him happy. So the next time any thought whispers to you that, you are fat, ugly, too tall or short, know that it’s not God’s voice and just reply: "At least I have a body".
No matter the challenges life throws at you, never stop trying. You only fail when you stop.
In conclusion "Let Him have all your worries and cares, for he is always thinking about you and watching everything that concerns you" - 1 Peter 5:7 (TLB).
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UNLEASHING A FIREFULL BRAND INTO THE NATIONAL SCENE by Ukpono Etuk
It is often said in Ibibio parlance, 'mkpo ama adod owo, eyak eno' meaning when someone is ripe for something, he or she shouldn't be deprived of such opportunity or substance which is the exact driving force behind the resolve of the great people of Etinan Federal Constituency to launch a young, dynamic, erudite and fire-full brand lawmaker into the National scene having creditably performed at the State level and absolutely ripe to ascend to the apogee in lawmaking based on the fact that two good terms deserves a promotion who is poised to make substantial impact in the National Assembly through oversight functions, timely Constituency Briefing, Empowerments and projects, moving of motions and enactment of people oriented laws with the tendency of reforming/repositioning the Nation towards meeting global demand for the common interest of both the high class citizens and equally the low class citizens.
Considering his antecedent, He is measured as a borrowed brand in the African continent whose acumen and leadership prowess is of the European Continent which for the time being come 2019 will be gladly released by his people into the centre of the affairs of the Nation for substantial impact in the National Assembly as practically exhibited in the 6th Assembly in Akwa Ibom State.