Many
men have complained that women are hard to love and are something else;
they don't know what they want, not to talk of the man in their life
who is trying to figure out that and meet those needs of hers. Loving a
woman becomes complicated when you misunderstand her. Every woman is
different, if a man will learn to focus on one woman and learn about
her, loving her will be easy.
She becomes complicated
when she doesn't know who she is to you, when she doesn't know her place
in your heart. Every woman wants to be her man's woman but not one of
his women. She wants to be treated special because she sees herself as
special. And when she is treated like any other woman in the life of his
man, she becomes uncomfortable.
She wants to be
addressed as his one and only, not one of his many. Women have a problem
with men who can't do that. She doesn't want to be call his favourite
for she understands what you call your favourite could become your least
liked with time. What you term as favourite could change tomorrow.
She
doesn't want you to call her your forever, to her forever is just a
myth. What she wants you to call her is 'yours'. What is yours will
always be yours. That is what makes her happy. That is what makes her
feel happy.
She wants to be secure, she wants your
intention for her to be real. She doesn't want to be led on, for when
that happens, it is easy for you as a man to move on than her. To you
the man, she is out of your life. But to her, it is difficult getting
you out of her memories. Something she cannot do. She lives with such
memories. And that is what hurts her the most.
Women
want a man who is thoughtful, a man who can love her in a million ways. A
man who is not tired of thinking of her. A man who doesn't not run out
of ideas of expressing his love to her. To be with her is a must.
She
is not looking for a super man who will fix all her problems but a
friend who will be by her side through all her problems; Not a lover who
runs away and only comes around when the mood is special. Not a man who
shows up because she is looking good and he misses her, then leaves
when done. The truth is, you only miss the sun when it starts to snow.
She doesn't want to go before you know you love her.
A
friend who will hold her hands when things go wrong, a friend she can
run to when she is feeling lonely. A friend who never leaves, someone
who doesn't make you feel alone.
She wants a man who
will love and respect her as his working partner, not a subordinate he
can lord over but a partner he can serve. She wants a man who can't
stand her tears, a man who will die when she cries, not a man who will
cry when she dies. Such a man might not understand her feelings and
might hurt her.
In conclusion "Women must also be
serious. They must not gossip or be heavy drinkers, and they must be
faithful in everything they do" - 1 Timothy 3:11 (CEV).
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