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PREMIER LEAGUE WAGES: THE TOP TWENTY EARNERS IN ENGLISH FOOTBALL
Mesut Ozil Arsenal £300,000
Paul Pogba Manchester United £290,000
Kevin De Bruyne Manchester City £280,000
Romelu Lukaku Manchester United £250,000
Sergio Aguero Manchester City £220,000
Yaya Toure Manchester City £220,000
Zlatan Ibrahimovic Manchester United £220,000
David de Gea Manchester United £200,000
Eden Hazard Chelsea £200,000
Virgil van Dijk Liverpool £180,000
Pierre-Emerick Aubameyang Arsenal £180,000
Alexandre Lacazette Arsenal £170,000
David Silva Manchester City £160,000
Cesc Fabregas Chelsea £150,000
Alvaro Morata Chelsea £150,000
Daniel Sturridge Liverpool/West Brom £150,000
Ross Barkley Chelsea £150,000
Juan Mata Manchester United £145,000
Raheem Sterling Manchester City £135,000
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NO MARRIAGE IS BEYOND REPAIR
We should learn to love our spouses, no matter how unloving they have become, because God never stopped loving us when we became unloving and disrespectful towards Him. We need to forgive our spouses when they hurt us, for we were first forgiven by God. As His children He is teaching us to live our lives like Him.
The goal of every loving father is to see his children to be like him or better, not worse. Gods want the best from us because He first gave us His best. And He never gives up on us. He has hope even for the worst sinner.
When we love something, even in its worst stage, we still have hope for it, we don't abandon it. This is one thing that makes the burial of a loved one so hard. Even though their bodies have gone bad and nothing can be done to bring it back to life, we find it difficult to dispose it off.
We end up giving them a befitting burial, a tomb, where we can always go, as if that will re-established the broken connection. If we truly love our spouse as we claim, letting them go will be the hardest decision of our lives.
Strangely, hurting or unhappy spouses cannot wait to leave their marriage. Many couldn't wait to divorce but go ahead in a hurry to take off the ring from their fingers. Forgetting that taking the ring off doesn't mean you are no more married. God doesn't need a ring to know whether you are married or not. The vow you made to and before Him is what He knows.
Since He is a covenant keeping God, He holds on to vows made to Him. People don’t know you don't marry for happiness; you marry to fulfil the purpose of God. And the reason why you are not happy in your marriage is because you don't appreciate the spouse God has blessed you with.
Whenever you look at your spouse, all you see is the negatives, the hurt, their weakness. Meanwhile God doesn't see us like that. Even in our sinful nature, God still sees us as His image and because He loves Himself, He continues to love us despite our iniquities.
Issues in your marriage should not be the reasons to give up, it should be the motivation to work on your marriage; not an excuse to back out but an inspiration to carry on.
Let your love for your spouse go beyond the physical, let it be spiritual, pray for your spouse and address them like the man or woman you want them to become.
Don't make a permanent decision because your spouse upset you. You should rather seek the face of God. Ask God what to do. Lean on Him, not on your emotion but on His understanding. His plans for your life are bigger than your hurt and frustration.
God has the bigger picture of your marriage; don't just conclude on what you see through the windows of your marriage, for bad weather always looks worse through a window.
Your commitment to love your spouse should be unconditional even in a bad situation, being willing to serve them selflessly, communicate, protect, forgive them. This has the power to heal and restore your marriage.
In conclusion, no matter how hurt, tired or weak you are from your marital journey, seek the face of God. "He gives power to the tired and worn out, and strength to the weak" - Isaiah 40:29 (TLB).
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DON'T MARRY A MAN WHO LACKS GROWTH IN LIFE
We are never the same and we don't remain the same. It’s either you are growing or outgrown. You are either moving or everything around you is moving and leaving you behind in life, including plants and animals.
And time is the perfect measuring instrument for growth. What you have experienced, learnt or archived can be measured in the space of time.
We have seen grown-ups who behave like kids, such people are not growing. They are old but not matured. We are supposed to grow with our age, learn with time. Each day comes with its lessons and teachers.
The more you learn the better you become. God knows how important growth is in our lives, that is why He first blessed man to be fruitful and multiply. "God blessed them and said to them, "Be fruitful and multiply, and replenish the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the air and over every living thing that moves on the earth." - Genesis 1:28 (MEV).
Fruitfulness goes beyond producing offspring, it also means, you should be able to add value to everything in your life. You can't be idle in life; venture into business if you are not getting your dream job, for you have been blessed to make profit and succeed.
You should be able to help people who come your way, for you have been blessed to do that. You should be useful in the community and the environment or family you find yourself. People should be able to benefit from you because you are a man of substance.
You can't be fruitful and remain the same. You can't be fruitful and not want to multiply. You are supposed to add value to life, time and anyone or thing you lay hands on. Bring the best out of it. You should have the culture of maintenance or taking good care of things.
When you marry and refuse to learn about marriage and your spouse, but remain adamant that, this is who you are, and if your wife can't live with you, it’s her problem, she will eventually outgrow you. And will get tired of you.
You can't have level headed discussion because you are lacking behind, you lack wisdom about things around you, and you lack understanding. Every little conversation in your relationship you turns into an argument.
People who refuse to grow are fools and they suffer greatly in life. They don't want to accept something new. Anything new threatens their peace and comfort.
If you want to be successful in any aspect of your life not just marriage, you have to keep moving. You don't remain at one place. Fear and failure is not part of you, for you have been blessed to succeed. You only become a failure when you quit or refuse to move or decide to remain in one place.
No matter how good a woman you are, you can't be good for a man who refuses to grow in life. A good woman is the wife of a man who can add value to her life. A man who can grow old with her.
In conclusion "The wise man looks ahead. The fool attempts to fool himself and won't face facts" - Proverbs 14:8 (TLB).
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HOW TO BUILD INTIMACY IN RELATIONSHIPS
One of the problems couples are faced with in their relationship is lack of intimacy. To some spouses, as far as they can go through their partner’s phone, Facebook account, wallet or hand bag they are close.
To others intimacy is being able to touch their partner’s body and explore it. To some intimacy is sex so the only time they feel close is when they are in the bedroom.
What really makes one beautiful is not their body but rather their heart and their soul. To get to know the true beauty of someone, means you getting to know their heart and getting into their soul; this is what keeps relationships and that is the true form of intimacy.
You are intimate with your partner when you learn to give them your attention, when you talk to them about anything without being judged, rejected or ignored; being able to share every little detail of your day with them without them getting bored or making you feel like a talkative; being able to share your fears, dreams, goals, etc. without feeling uncomfortable.
Being intimate with your partner means giving them your time, even when many people are demanding it. It is making time out of your busy schedule to be with your loved one, not worried about anything and all that matters is the time you enjoyed together.
You are truly intimate with your partner when you have him or her at the back of your mind and in your thoughts no matter how distracted you are.
It is when you are distant in location or geographically yet close at heart; it is when each time you miss them, you can go back to old messages, re-read them and smile like an idiot.
It is good to take care of your partner and spend on them, but that is not enough and that is not what keeps the relationship. Giving them your time does, for that it is one thing which cannot be bought.
When you learn how to spend time with your partner, you won't worry about anyone taking them away from you, because you have their attention and heart. They carry you with them wherever they go. You are in their thoughts. They play back memories they have with you when you are away.
Relationship becomes beautiful when partners can talk like best friends, play like children, protect each other like siblings and love each other like husband and wife.
Men, keep this in mind, it’s not love if all she wants is your money and not your time.
Ladies, it’s not love if he can't give you his time and attention but all he showers on you is gifts and money.
In conclusion "Love does not do the wrong thing. Love never thinks of itself. Love does not get angry. Love does not remember the suffering that comes from being hurt by someone" - 1 Corinthians 13:5 (NLV).
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